Who’s your number one priority? If you’re religious, aside from God, who is your number one priority? Stop reading for just a second and answer that question.
Why didn’t you pick yourself? Because that would be selfish? Because you’re supposed to put others before yourself? Because you want to serve others?
Who has more impact on others? Is it the person that completely exhausts herself and neglects herself spending every ounce of her being making other people higher priority, or the person that is constantly working on herself and energizing herself so that she can have the biggest impact on others?
Pick yourself. Make yourself more important. The more you take care of yourself and the more you build yourself the more you will have to give.